Travelling in France is a joy, but a few unwitting faux pas can make you stand out — and not in a good way. Here are some common slip-ups, plus tips to help you blend in.
- Forgetting to say “bonjour”
In France, it’s customary to greet people when you enter a shop, café, or even a lift. Skipping this can seem curt or dismissive. A simple “Bonjour, Madame/Monsieur” sets the right tone. - Switching to “tu” too quickly
The informal tu isn’t for everyone you meet — it’s something granted over time. Use vous with strangers, shop assistants, and older people unless they invite you to switch. - Speaking too loudly
Public conversations in France are usually conducted at a lower volume. Booming across a café can make you seem brash. Keep it warm but measured. - Expecting quick service at restaurants
Dining in France is about enjoyment, not speed. Meals can be leisurely, with long pauses between courses. Rushing the waiter may come across as impatient. - Assuming everyone speaks English
Many French people do speak English (although some like to pretend they can’t), but starting with a few words in French — even if it’s just “Bonjour” and “Parlez-vous anglais ?” — shows respect. - Over-tipping
Service is included in French restaurant bills, so tipping is optional and usually small (rounding up to the nearest euro or leaving a euro or two for good service).
💡 Cultural tip: Good manners travel well — even if your French is basic, politeness, a smile, and a willingness to adapt will take you far.
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